HOW DID I KNOW I WAS AGENDER? Q&A #1

I knew I was agender because I never felt fully any gender and liked acting male and female. Like I wore boys shirts because they were in the boys section and wore skirts because I liked how they looked. I played with boys and girls and generally feel happiest in a mixed gender group of friends. I find being called a girl uncomfortable but being called she/her completely fine, as well as they/them or he/him. I feel more comfortable ticking the male box than the female.

I'm crying I'm so happy there's someone like me thank you

When you said "I didn't know what I am but I knew I wasn't cis" And I'm just here like: yeah I have the same thing right now- wait. I've done this before... wha- HOLD UP I ALREADY SAID THIS SHIT BEFORE I KNEW I WAS ASEXUAL yall I might be agender

I know I'm almost two years late in this video but I think I'm agender and I'm pretty sure of it only I'm scared to tell anyone bc of anxiety and I'm okay with my body and feminine pronouns but I'd like a binder and stuff so am l really agender

my voice is really strange, people can just not tell the deference on whether I'm biologically Male or Female, just based on my voice. but at certain times my voice does suddenly pitch up.... heh.... I didn't know that agenders could take hormones without suddenly being classifies as FTM or MTF or something like that.........

Hey, would love some advice. I have been struggling with my gender and need some advice. I was born female and whatever I identify with i would present fairly fem. I prefer jumpsuits and trousers but will wear a dress in a few instances. I dont feel connected to any gender and any pronoun feels the same for me. I think I might be agender/librafeminine but would like to hear what anyone thinks from what I said. Thanks

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Hello! So.... I started questioning my gender about two months ago... I narrowed it down to either genderfluid or agender fairly quickly (although for a few weeks I've been considering that I am a trans man. I don't dislike my body, but I prefer that I'd been born with a male body.) While I do feel more inclined to male or female on different days, most of the time I feel like neither (although I am definitely NOT a cis-female). But if I had to describe my overall personality, behaviour, thought and emotional patterns I'd say I'm a little bit of both. Is genderfluid fluctuating between male and female? Or can they feel male or female or both or neither, as I do?

When you call certain things "girly", it's offensive to me. I'm not a girl, but I like some of the stuff you called "girly". I don't suddenly turn into a girl as soon as I put on a skirt! I'm still Agender, and slapping a gender on stuff is like an invalidation of my identity, and it reinforces binary gender stereotypes. I believe that dresses, make-up, heels, long hair etc. are for anyone who likes them, regardless of gender. A person's outward appearance is not always reflective of their gender, or lack of gender.

hello, i saw this video because i was curious about how other agenders transitioned. i am agender myself but i have not started any transitioning for my body, mostly because i have a thyroid problem and i've just been scared as to what would happen if i did use hormones to physically transition. i have thought about ordering a binder but i'm also scared of how my mother would react to me ordering and wearing a binder. i did a coming out post on face book for my family to see, but i dont know if shes seen it and ignored it or she just never saw it. all in all i'm scared about how she would react most of all

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I just realized I was afab agender a couple of weeks ago. I'm still figuring out what that all means for me and what I want to do about it. I'm considering a low dosage of T hormones because I'd like to have the option of sideburns and facial hair and a slightly lower voice. But I have an afab gender fluid friend who's doing that and one side effect was that their hair started falling out with male pattern baldness stuff and now they have to keep it shaved and wear wigs. I'm worried about that happening so I'm not sure what I should do. Do you have more info or advice about hormone pros/cons for afab agender people?

k so im very late to this video so idk if anyone would be able to help but so how do you know for like for sure? Cause like I'm afab and I'm perfectly fine with stereotypically female stuff and like being called she/her and 'female' like compliments and I'm comfy with that. But then again I'm perfectly comfortable with typically 'male' stuff just like the female stuff. But also they/them and all that. And I don't feel gender? if that makes sense, like I don't know what feels like let alone describe it?

OMG my birth name was also Megan. I also identify as agender. That's. Cool. Good video. You are amazing!!!!

Can someone please explain to me how does it feels to be agender? Like I watched a lot of videos and I really don't understand and I'm super confused, I would really appreciate that someone told me how it feels. (I really hope this doesn't offends anybody)

I was always very tomboyish and thought I was non binary since I knew I wasn’t a girl but also not a boy, so I thought the only other option was non binary. I’ve never cared for any gender and especially pronouns, I hated it. Like whenever I thought of my gender and pronouns, It felt so empty, like a void (idk how to explain it). Then I came across agender and EVERYTHING clicked. I use any pronouns cause I just really don’t care but using my name just feels so much better! Also It’s really funny coz when I heard people feeling euphoric when others use their pronouns I didn’t get it AT ALL. Coz I thought I uses they/them since I ‘was’ non binary and i never got any euphoric feelings. But now when ppl use my name instead of she they or him, it feels AMAZING!! Totally feel the euphoric feeling now lol

Can someone please help me on this? I was born female but never really 'felt' like a female....nor a male either. I didn't discover agender until recently. Could this be what I am? (also is it possible to be agender and only be attracted to guys? Thanks. )

I'm really confused tho. I don't mean to sound ignorant at all, because I don't totally understand it all. But why are you undergoing the transition process to be more male-like if you don't identify as totally male, but you're trying to seem more masculine.

Is it agender to just be indifferent? I already don’t follow nearly any gender norms I can think of. As such my life feels like it would be the same regardless of gender. I try to talk about myself in the 3rd person with varying pronouns, but I’m having less reaction to any of ‘em than I would expect. I don’t necessarily dislike being a cis boy, but I want being cis to be a complete coincidence, a big coincidence that my gender matches my sex. Tryn’a explore my gender, but the more I think about it, the dumber the whole thing is. Why have any expectations of a person bases on whether it looks like they like blue or pink? It’s dumb. I honestly don’t care what pronouns someone calls me. I don’t see a major difference in my life if I am a girl or whatever. Is that was being agender is? I don’t really feel like I know what being a boy is, because I can’t see what would change if I wasn’t. I feel like me, and I’ve been called “he” for my entire life, so do I really need to go further than that? Idk.

why did you chose to transition?