The #1 Way to Get Commitment Without Games or Ultimatums

We need a dating app that connects all of your male and female listeners so there’s less guessing about who’s ready for commitment 😊

Just here to let you know that my group of friends and I all listen to you, Matt, and we're all male. Great dating advice and human decency transcends gender.

I'm male, and I definitively want to be in a committed relationship. I hate the idea of hooking up and playing the field.

As I was fighting for you, I realized I was fighting to be lied to; fighting to be taken for granted; fighting to be disappointed; and fighting to be hurt again! So I started fighting to let go!

Mutual emotional availability is the first cornerstone for establishing a relationship that will have the capacity to develop and grow.

It’s becoming obvious to me that the most important things people need to focus on in society right now is self love and healing. Relationships should not even be on their radar until they are healed and truly love them self.

I there are also many people who say they want commitment, but then either don't want to do the work, or are deep down afraid of it.

I’ve eliminated the idea of even being friends with guys. I’ve made a clear distinction between a guy who wants something more or just friendship. Having wasted years with guys who wanted me around as this friends forever, becoming emotionally attached and then seeing them choose women in my presence has been nothing but a painful experience

If you are having to FIGHT for commitment… then they are not your person. The best advice is to commit to yourself… if someone tells you that they do not want a relationship BELIEVE THEM ❤❤

Girls, stop believing that you are so special that a guy would change just because of you. He will not start a successful relationship with YOU because all the other girls around him are just an 8 and you think you are a 9 or 10 (he maybe change his position about relationship if you have a really amazing character, but are you really that differnt than other girls?). Look how he is acting (and in which company he is, where he is, what he is doing, what he is not doing, ...) BEFORE he starts to talk to you the first time. This is the most authentic picture of him you will get for a long time.

Congratulations on being married! I sincerely wish you and Audrey a happy and fulfilling married life together! Wonderful news!

Thank you for your continued efforts in sharing this wonderful knowledge with us! I learned a lot through your videos, another awesome video and great editing! You did an amazing job! I look forward to meeting you somewhere in this world (maybe in Taipei) in my lifetime! 👍🥰🙏🎁🎈🎉

I told the guy from the very beginning that I'm looking for a serious relationship. He said so was he. He gave me commitment but he would not make things official. But he wouldn't hide either. He would talk to me about our future together. I was confused throughout our time together. Finally, one fine day he decided that we're not right for each other. I'm angry because he was the one who was interested in ne first. He pursued me then concluded it was not working. Then decided to come back again and did everything to make me trust him again and then left me again because he felt we were not right for each other.

There is not even an issue of thinking about loosing any freedom in a loving relationship. People who really appreciate loving commitment see it as togetherness, spending most of the time together, mostly sharing and creating with their chosen loved one, including them in all aspects of their life, being united spiritually and physically. This is the true essence of commitment, anything away from that is traumatic avoidance and selfishness.

Thank you for over a decade of wisdom Matthew! Happy new year to you, Audrey, Jameson, Stephen and the rest of the team! Congratulations on getting married- wishing you both a lifetime of peace and bliss ❤

You’re probably one of the few out there with a healthy mindset about this topic and sometimes is so easy to just fall into these logics. Thank you.

It is so painful now how a person can turn his back on you in a matter of a week... They did not even got a chance to see my true character...

Live your passion and the rest might follow

I feel that dating changed a lot for the past couple of years. And I really love that you are also becoming flexible. Without giving all of these manipulation techniques or "be in your feminine/masculine", or "go and do that and that" - you are just bringing the focus to what is really really important. To one self. This is so great. No surprise everybody says that 2024 is a year of healing and self love. I think things will get better very soon 🥰

Watching your videos almost a year now.. after a very painful break up. I have learned a lot through your videos and you have helped me a lot during this healing period of my life 🙏❤ Just signed up for your event! First time joining a live session! Looking forward to! 🥰 Best regards from Greece❤