Foster Toddler Taken Away Again – My Frustration

The foster parents who are abusing the foster kids, they overlook, and the nice ones like Peter they give a hard time.

Poor sweet little Bella being ripped away from her family. They need to allow a period of a few weeks to get these background checks done, not just take the baby immediately. The system has no compassion for these innocent foster kids.

They’re never see the abuser until too late,but the good foster parents they’re giving them hard time,what a shame.

I was a "foster" parent for a girl from 8 to 18. The state was a nightmare when I looked into getting some assistance with her. (Her dad was raising 8 children on his own and was fine with her staying with me. I was her big sister through a church program and her dad and I realized she needed me.) I ended up just raising her. The Foster Care System was a joke. The paperwork they sent was unending. Finally gave up and just had her with me and paid her way. She turned out awesome! So proud of Marie! ❤

They should not remove her. They should give the other 2 kids time to get their documents. So sad

What?!?! This is too much!!!! They’re just adding to that baby girls trauma….

Former foster care mom here. I sort of understand making sure that everyone over 18 in the house is background checked, etc., etc. BUT to yank the little ones away from all they have ever known, causing even more trauma makes zero sense to me. I'm sorry you're all going through this, how frustrating.

I will never understand the system. Leave the children being abused in the home & remove the children in a loving safe home. God bless you for caring for all the children you have & giving them unconditional love. Praying she comes home very soon.

THATS NOT FAIR AT ALL!!😡😡😡 It’s not even the little one’s fault at all!🤬🤬🤬

THIS IS WHY GOOD PEOPLE DON'T WANT TO BE FOSTER PARENTS!!!! 🙏❤️😇

That's a true story of being a foster parent. The system just causes more trauma for everyone involved. It's why most foster parents quit.

It's heart breaking and perfectly inhuman to put that little kid through that insecurity and fear, I mean it's just not right!!!

Peter this is absolutely ridiculous. You have every right to be pissed, they should have given Zay and Anthony 30 days to get everything in order.

Foster parents should have a voice in the courts❤

And making Zaye and Anthony feel they are at fault. How convoluted! You have given a lifelong family to these wonderful kids. At 18 most kids are set adrift. Peter, you are the best example. Your family is solid. Prayers for Bella's safety and a quick return to your nest.

This poor child. To have such a wonderful home and siblings, all that taken away. This system needs to be fixed

They’re protecting themselves from criminal charges if something happened and they’re blamed. But there’s no excuse for not giving you a proper leadtime to get accredited because the true victim is the child. 🌸

You were wonderful to keep your adult children instead of throwing them onto the streets and saying, “Your on your own now.” This sounds like they didn’t give you any advance notice.

This ‘rant’ is lovely in one way. It shows the depth of your care for Bella and you know how this needless break from her family could affect her and her siblings.

I worked at a hospital, two or three years ago, and a teen committed suicide, I asked her why? and she told me that her foster mother yelled at her and told her that she was NOT her mother, don't call her mom. According to the teen said, her foster "mother" had her own kids like 5, she had 5 kids and then she fostered 7 kids, so there were 12 kids in the family. The mom always mentally abused those foster kids. They did not have a big house and the house was messy, and the couple did not have a good income. After a psychiatrist chatted with the teen, she said the teen is suffering from a bad parenting foster family. We noticed the police, and guess what? They let the original foster parents take her home???????? But you need to lose your foster toddler for a BS reason? You have a beautiful, clean house and you have time, love, and patience for your foster kids, but they took the toddler away from you ??? I can't imagine your frustration. The foster system is very toxic!!