You need to stay away from friends like these

It can be really difficult to let go of these people. I've had to recently. He was one of my best friends but the more I thought about it friendship the more I raised he didn't value it. There's tons more I could say about it but in the end I think I'm better off not having him in my life

Yup, Remove poisonous people from your life, and you will be much happier. Thank you!! ( From Arizona USA )

Great wisdom! I totally agree and have removed people that have used me in the past and were never friends, they just wanted something from me the whole time.

Some "friends" ease into their abuse so gradually that you might not even realize it's happening, some people don't realize they befriended a monster until it's to a tipping point. Often times they get outraged at you trying to move on or cutting off ties with them so they feel like its justified to attempt to destroy your image as retaliation or revenge or to find the one thing that hurts you the most, your most sensitive aspect about you. Never give into their abusive or childish behavior it's only to bate you back into speaking to them, Remain strong and keep on ignoring them. If they show up where you live, Don't answer the door.

Much love from Oklahoma 💕
You're speaking straight facts! 🔥 💯

Real words... Thx for making me realize the importance of removing toxic people..
No wonder, I'm feeling drained

I know how it feels.

Stay strong

Like a JP message! Love it

True. Don't put up with nonsense and abuse of any kind. Get out of the snake-pit, dust yourself off and keep going.

I removed a toxic person but now I've been lonely. She was the only one who showed me any interest but she slowly went from a caring loving person to a narcissist and abuser. She would hit and pinch and throw objects at me. It took a lot of time to build up the strength to put up barriers and protect myself. It was really difficult. I really loved her, not only because I'm lonely. I thought the girl I fell in love with was still in there, but it was only a mask she wore. It's been since 2019. I still find myself missing the "mask" at times.

Preach it sister!

I’ve cut off a lot of people from my life and I can honestly say that at first you do feel guilty about it but afterwards you start having life much more enjoyable and less stressful and then the guilt goes away.

4ever love ya

So true...but those people tend to SUCK onto you like Leeches and Lampreys .😅

Well said

Perfectly said.

Well said..
But missing long videos Sonia!!

Good to see you back. Missed you ❤

Powerful and truthful message!

Everyone has trauma and experiences that mold us into who we are.and we will always be growing and learning through this existence,and I've figured out that this world is deceptive.not many people truly want just a friendship and people definition of a friendship often vary.this has given me constant distrust in everyone but myself.driving me to be more self-reliant and in turn I challenge my beliefs and ideas.none of this would be necessary if I just joined into the mass of people just trying to deceive each other.but I want genuine love and happiness so i make the sacrifices to find this rare gemstone in a pit of glass.but I do often find people that make me confident I'm not alone thinking this way and I believe you are on the path of knowledge and acceptance.