Exes: I Wouldn’t Change A Single Thing | {THE AND} Aubrey & Shei

My heart literally broke when she choked out "not a single thing"

Living together just drags the inevitable out. Figure out who gets the cat and then you each move and get your own places.

Girl on the left is ready to move on but doesn't want to hurt (right) anymore. What a guilt trip.

aubreys heart is so open and transparent. i truly felt every tear she shed.

I was in a relationship similar to this dynamic. I was like Aubrey, the one who loved the other more. It's so heartbreaking to revisit those emotions and memories. Now I'm much happier and in a better place! I hope Aubrey knows that things do get better.

The perfect example of loving someone more than you are loved back 😭

I say this as a queer person that we in the lesbian/bisexual community should try to make our breakups neater. I too was in a relationship with my girlfriend for two years, on and off in this same dynamic. Yes, we were roommates too lol. And I held on for too long in this same situation, asking all these questions and having all these talks and I tell you that wish I had walked away sooner. It hurts to let go, I know, the community is a tiny and close niche, and when we find love it seems like a soul connection even when all it's doing is draining us. Lesbians suck at breaking up! If you are reading and you're in a similar situation, walk away. Pack up your heart and walk away. It doesn't matter the connection, if you're crying this much, it's not worth it.

I too was in a relationship like this, I was like you Aubrey. I loved her more than she loved me and when we broke up a decade ago, I left that door open and she would come in and out of my life at her pleasure. She came back into my life recently and professed her undying love for me and I got sucked right back into her web. But, this time, I really took sometime to analyze the past decade and how this has always been a trend and I came to the conclusion that I had to shut the door that I had left open for her all these years. And I shut it. It took me ten years but I finally shut it and immediately a weight lifted off of the depths of my heart. I hope you find the strength to shut the door as well.

''I wouldn't change a thing because it got us here'' what a beautiful way to state that everything happens for a reason and that we are exactly were we need to be, even when it's painful. Thank you for sharing such intimate conversation, you guys are inspiring! I wish you both the best. Love from Spain 🧡

Being vulnerable is a superpower, thank you for sharing your experience so openly!

It seems like the girl on the right is not ready to let go at all. I wish them both the best thanks for sharing.

This was hard to watch, just because it’s always the saddest thing when two people are not on the same page, and when one is ready to move on while the other isn’t. Sometimes ripping the bandaid off is a lot more merciful and considerate.

Oh boy. Aubrey needs to let Shei go. Shei is done.

"It's still the purest thing I've ever experienced" and so it is. It's almost impossible to replace. Sometimes you really just don't want to. A love that is so pure and natural to you. Sometimes, you just dwell on it. You just never really want to leave. I mean, how could you? I know I don't.

"falling in love is the stupidest thing you could ever do!" she preaching! 🗣

Whew. Wow. Y'all were super vulnerable and open to sharing your pain, healing, and love. The added layer of being so open about not knowing what's going to happen... that takes so much courage and vulnerability to put it out there like that. 👏 Wishing you both the best on your individual and collective journeys.💜

dang, i feel bad for the girl with the blue eyes. she deserves someone who is still in love with her. the other cutie seems to have a grip. really, i think they need to rip the bandaid off. sad, but true.

It is so hard to let go of someone that you were deeply in love with. You shared with that person every important thing of your life during the time you were together. Coming to term with this type of relation is very hard

They have to truly set one another free. Disconnect fully, they are way to entwined for this to be healthy. I'm glad to hear them acknowledge this but they need to work harder on true separation.

Well… I’m glad some people felt something watching this bc all I felt was a drag. This concept of “we’re together but not together” in my generation is terribly embarrassing. Stop hurting people you claim to love just bc you’re afraid of the unknown.