The Saga of Entitled Parents Who Can't Respect OP's Wishes and Boundaries

The father's repeated insistence on him having the baby for "alone time" is uh,, terrifying.

Why does she keep telling her parents details about her life when she knows they'll twist it? Money Problems, Weight issues, Baby names etc?

Know what...I find it extremely suspicious that he was so gung ho about changing the daughters nappies, but practically uninterested in the son's.

Anybody else getting pedo vibes from the dad? Always trust your kid's reactions to people. Family or not.

"Becuase I let slip...." "My parents are offended on my behalf..." "Whom am I to refuse gift cards?" Do you respect your own boundries lady? Do you have boundries.... at all? Stop sharing things with your parents.

Dad is giving some serious pedo vibes. I felt my stomach turn just hearing this.

This story has some really bad red flags. Op's father is really creepy. Op's mother knows something off about her husband.

For someone who hates people involved in her life so much-she sure invites the drama in on a regular basis. Talk talk talk tell them everything and then complain when they try to help in any way. She sounds like a petulant whiny edgy teenager trying to rebel hard while still relying heavily on the support (emotional, venting, financial etc) of her family. Tell them everything and then angrily pushing them away when they do what family members often do-try to help or get involved in some way. Like “give me attention and money and gifts but then STAY IN YOUR LANE away from me!!!! What? Why can’t I have evvvveeerrryyything I want even if it’s contradictory??? Come on, jump from one foot to another repeatedly until I say STOP! What? I want what I want when I want it, no matter how it affects others! Why is that too much to ask??!!!” (Countdown until her kids are on Reddit saying the exact same sh-t about her and her bad behavior).

This woman is to blame for telling every little thing about her life and then being surprised that people have an opinion on it. She needs to join a mother and baby group if she is liked telling her business and expects no opinions.

"We'd like to save a little money, it's been tight." = THEY'RE LOSING THEIR HOUSE! "We're gonna start going to the gym together." = HER HUSBAND THINKS SHE'S GROSS AND FAT "We'd prefer to not have any visitors the first month." = THEY DON'T WANT US IN THEIR LIVES EVER. Chill. It's not that serious, ya weirdos. Why do some people react this way? Say no or say anything against them and they react so extremely it's actually concerning.

Yep child instinct are beter then a adult. Even animals know beter

Like dude, I get wanting to be around a baby family member or being excited to spend time with them but even I got the message when I got in my half-sister's face and she got overwhelmed and started crying. Personal space dude, personal space everyone needs it, even infants.

This is the most undramatic drama ever 😂

Imagine having your whole family allow someone so dangerously on the spectrum like this to be the family patriarch.

I did not expect this to end with all the boundaries in place. I guess the father is only a manchild and not an obsessed like I thought

"Welp, not feeling better about dad." - Me every thirty seconds

I think this dad is undiagnosed neurodivergent. A life of that has resulted in anger issues.

Written up for an engaged woman wearing her engagement ring to work? I think I'd have taken legal advice on that one.

do not accept anything from them. I think they are now dangerous. they ghave been always NC but they are now dangerous

What is with the obsession with grandchildren???