9 Style Mistakes That Make You Look BORING

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"It's not uncomfortable. It's unfamiliar" - Literally the best advice to boost my confidence I've heard in a long time. Bravo, Antonio!

1. Be encouraged to be the best dressed. Don’t be shy to draw attention! 2. Play to your strengths. What outfits work specifically with your body type? What do you like about your body? Show it. 3. Pay attention to detail. e.g. different fabrics and different patterns, accessories 4. Know about different fabric options and the corresponding effect. 5. Use colors but don’t misuse them! Maybe leave popping colors for accessories. 6. Build your fashion sense. Get inspired! You can learn it.

LOLD at "You want to look large and in charge, NOT fat and sloppy." RMRS is my new favorite channel. I picked up some new items over the weekend, and I've already gotten compliments. Thanks Antonio!!

in my opinion and from my experience as long as you are slim everything on earth will look good on you overall. but combining a slim body and a nice shirt usually puts you on a next level.

1. No courage to deal with attention 2. Not paying to your strengths 3. Not paying attention to style details 4. Not knowing different fabric options 5. Misuse of colors 6. Not experimenting 7. No fashion sense 8. Not knowing your history 9. Not exercising your options

Been living in Japan for a while and the average person has such a high fashion sense compared to where I am from that I had to completely throw out my wardrobe and I am now wearing stuff I never would have thought of wearing. Brown coat with a red mockneck paired with black chinos and I've already gotten more stares and compliments than in my entire life before that... Just goes to show that inspiration and going for something new is worth it. Even if it turns out badly and you have to scrap the outfit, at least you tried. This goes for most areas in life.

James Bond in Spectre, my favorite Bond movie of all times is also one of the most stylish. After watching it for the first time, I went out and bought a dark blue polo shirt and put on my khaki pants and went out to the streets, trying to reproduce the Bond look in Morocco, and, to my surprise, I received whistles from two teenage girls and a woman told me I looked great, and I was at the moment a 43 years old man! So guys, find the Bond outfit that goes the best for you.

Antonio is probably the only guy I know of, besides members of 'Boyz II Men' who can wear an all white coat.

I had a coworker once tell me I was making everyone else look bad with how I dressed. I took that as a win, but it was tempered by the fact that many of my coworkers looked like they had just rolled out of bed and into the office. I told him if I was making him look bad (I was only wearing a button down shirt, grey slacks, and cheap brown leather shoes) he should step up his game. He didn't.

One of the things holding me back from dressing up a bit is my wife. She dresses business casual for work and often times is ready to change to more comfy/chill attire once home. This leads to hoodies, fleece and jeans when we run errands or grab dinner. Occasionally I've tried to nicely and indescretly suggest better dress for an outing but it rarely works. I don't want to wear a Sport coat, Jeans and wingtips while she's rocking a college hoodie, jeans and Brooks... IDK! Great Video and tips! I've learned so much from RMRS!

Couldn't agree more on the inspiration point. What happens is basically you start with a fixed outfit (for example one of Bonds looks) but with with you'll try different shoes, different colors of the garment, different textures etc. and with time your personal style is developed because you try (and withou fear!) different stuff. I think this the only way to develop personal. You cannot just sit and create it ona a spot. For example when I started to get more into menswear I was inspired by some old photos of the pilots from the 30's and 40's - loved the combination of those cool leather jakcets with wool flannel trousers and two-sided silk-wool scarfs. So when I assembled this look then I started to mix and match those garments with other elements of my wordrobe and this is how this journey started. Best wishes Antonio, hope you agree with my thoughts!

It was really difficult transitioning from the college fashion sense into manhood. I'm 42 and caught myself wearing gym shoes with jeans, old ass shirts(yes, with holes) and I literally didn't own more than one or two collared shirts. This was well into my 30's!

I love how you include a bit of history in your videos

Antonio, you are right, our society does not really want men to dress that well. Like Jordan Peterson said: we dress like oversized children! Hoodies, character T-shirts, sweatpants/jogging bottoms. Clothes that are the hallmarks of children's clothes shops! Antonio, you make me want to dress better!

For all my formal events, the rapier has always been my signature staple to make sure I'm interesting. That's why I'm no longer invited to weddings.

Antonio, I heard an interesting take on "playing to your strengths" that has affected my choice in styles. To put it simply, "double down." Growing up, I was always the skinny, nerdy, geeky kid. I was very self-conscious and insecure about that, which drove a lot of my decisions (especially involving my clothing) throughout life. However, a little over a decade ago, OkCupid posted an article where they tried to determine why some less attractive men and women did better on their dating site than more attractive peers. To simplify their findings, if you play up traits that some people like and other people hate (for me, that's thin and nerdy; for others it might be tattoos and piercings), you do much better at dating. I wasn't able to benefit from the article (since I was already dating my wife), but I could recognize that every woman I had ever been on 3+ dates with was attracted to thin and/or nerdy men. Therefore, my dating life would have been much easier if I had just doubled down on those two traits. Currently, instead of wearing clothes that disguise how thin I am, I'll often wear clothes that reinforce that trait (dark colors, vertical stripes). Instead of trying to look less nerdy, I've started going for a "professor" look (glasses with heavier frames, tweed jackets). Even professionally, if I show up at a meeting, I'm the numbers guy. I'll actually build my credibility with the client if I look the part. (I look like "the numbers guy" just because of the way God/genetics structured my face, but I can double down using wardrobe and accessories.)

I'd love to carry a sword or just a weapon in general. Unfortunately people in my area are generally hopliphobic and what ever blade phobic is, at least I can carry a decent knife.

I DON'T IGNORE people who try to put me down. I vocally try to pull them up and praise them for how "brave" they are to show up as they did and address me as such. They either shut up or go about making themselves look stupid and ignored. You guys should try it LOL

As an athletic guy. My body temp is always warm. So jackets or blazers cause me too sweat. Granted im in fort worth and winter rarely is cold. But being asian with green eyes im glad to see an idea for clothing colors.