We Are Leaving Thailand (Why it didn't work out, & What's next?)

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Julia - I can't handle heat and humidity. I don't have a proper thermostat in my body. We retired to northern New England while many elderly want the heat of southern states. We all make mistakes my friends but I don't think you did in this case. You made a decision to try Thailand and then you learned over that four month period that you had found a better solution, one that addressed a number of issues that had risen to the top of your priority list. That's not a mistake. I call it mindfulness. Adaptability. Future proofing your channel, your business. And then you even found someone to take the flat. I declare you both an all around success!!! Suzi

You guys haven't failed. You're evolving. Many people spend their lives in denial of what makes them truly happy. It takes courage to look yourself in the eye (metaphorically) and say "is this what I want?" Good on you guys. Hope you're feeling better about the move.

I've had heat stroke, heat exhaustion and heat illness and they all suck. You're being smart to listen to your body.

I like your message in this video. You guys are the most real and down to earth YouTubers. It’s okay to try and fail and learn from it. Thank you guys for being honest with us. Much respect 🫡

I'm a fan of colder weather too. I can tolerate heat if it's dry, like the SW USA, but humidity is the worst.

I just feel like a proud mum sitting here watching you grow and navigate your lives. So it wasn't for you. So what?? You gave it a shot and took us along for the ride, it was great! We seem to be conditioned to worry about what others think about us, I only realised much later in life it really doesn't matter. Your happiness is all that counts, you're both decent young people who have a great opportunity to see the world, more power to you. We packed up 12 years of a life abroad and arrived back in the UK with a suitcase each. Unfortunately our move was forced but we now have the chance to explore new areas again. Can't wait to see where we're off to next! 😀❤❤

Matt and Julia, you have absolutely nothing to apologise for, or even explain your reasons for moving on. It was an experience for you both to base yourselves in Bangkok but you both feel it's time to move on, enough said. It's great to settle for a while, get to know a place but what's important is that you both feel the same way. Also we learn all life and gather lots of lovely memories. Happy and safe travels. Gail Czech Republic ❤️ ❤️

First, big hugs to you both. Second, I hate the heat and humidity too. That right there would be a deal breaker for me but I had friends who moved there for several years, American expats. They loved living there, it was inexpensive and felt really welcomed by the people. When my friend got pregnant though she started to get homesick and little things crept in until they eventually did move back to the States. There is nothing wrong with changing your mind. It's not a sign of weakness or failure, things just change. Your perspective changed and it's time to move on. You don't need to make excuses, that's just how life is.

That was such an honest and courageous video to make, but I genuinely believe that it's better to cut your losses and move forward rather than keep pretending all is well. Fate definitely played a hand in your decision and I hope this made it a bit easier for you. This was an apartment versus your life and mental wellbeing, so no contest. I adore spending a month in Greece every summer, but could I live there? No, because it's not home. You're both so young and you've got plenty of time to decide where you want to make a permanent base, so just continue with your adventures and when the time is right, you'll know. Sending you both much love and luck.

If we had a pound for everything that didn't work out in the past. We would be very wealthy people today. However it was meant to be for you guys because in the end , your friend was there to take over the obligations of the apartment. Life leads you to twists and turns on the road. And who knows, you might be right back there again. As always, Love you ❤❤ Guys. Harriet, Jim and Yuki

I like warmth but there is a cut off point where the high heat zaps my energy and add in humidity and yuck. If it's cold, put on more clothing, if it's too hot there is only so far you can go to cool off. So, I'm with you Julia. It's sad to make a large move in living space but it's very mature of you to make a decision to move your location. It's said, everything happens for a reason.

Bangkok seems very pretty and the food looks delicious. I could never deal with the heat/weather. I totally understand your decision, and please look at it as a learning experience. The two of you are adventurous, don’t feel badly, it is just one step on a wonderful journey.❤

I get it! Part of your lifestyle is being able to get up and go, remember your whole point of what you do is listening to your needs and desires in life . Don’t be hard on yourselves , you’re not a failure I think the opposite because you’ve learned to be true to your desires in life! That’s what we love about you both. It’s part of your adventure!❤️💙

Heat and Humidity? NO THANKS! I grew up in NYC and HATE the humidity and heat of August. Live in SoCal now: dry and cool or warm, but no real humidity.

You never know how things will pan out, unless you experience it !! ❤❤❤❤

What happened to you is just life. Keep calm and carry on 😇 Love to enjoy your next adventures…. 🎉❤

You never know if something works out until you try it out.

I’m in the same boat with Julia: I am from south Mississippi, but I absolutely HATE the tropical heat. I live in Labrador now and it is wonderful (not the government, the scenery). Take care & be safe out there!

I am so uplifted to watch this video - I feel like a switch flipped and all of the angst of wondering about "did we fail" has so clearly transformed into "glad to have tried it and here we go forward to the next new plan" - I think you will be less inclined now going forward to feel torn about change and feel more forgiving of yourselves. How wonderful for your future planning! Life does contain surprises and so many more of them are ultimately good when you leave room to love what comes next. One wonderful surprise in my life is having discovered you and it makes my day when you present your current experiences. 🥰❤