Why Do Men Cheat?

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Published 2009-12-17
Steve Harvey tackles the age-old question.

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  • Cheating is a sign of immaturity, weakness, selfishness, greed and insecurity. If you're not strong enough to be in a marriage or a monogamous relationship, don't be in one. Remain single.
  • I trusted my husband 100%, gave him everything and went through a lot for him and yet he cheated on me. He was even planning on marrying this woman and eloping with her. When I asked,he denied denied denied a thousand times till I told him I have the messages between them ,then he apologized. 50% of my trust was gone and I told him that. Then I caught him again cheated on me the second time. Then the other 50% is gone. Now I'm only with him sake of my kids. Nothing more. No love. No trust. Nothing.
  • @MSilah
    If someone has a pattern of continually “misunderstanding” you, there’s a good chance you’re getting manipulated. You could end up talking yourself in circles which will be draining, harm your mental health, and make you too emotional so that you can’t think clearly. Many people like this are no different at their core than people who are OPENLY verbally and physically abusive, they’re just more sneaky about it, and there’s a good chance that the physical and/or verbal (aka overt) abuse is on its way. Covert abuse is very hard to spo
  • "THE MOST DANGEROUS LIARS ARE THOSE WHO THINK THEY ARE TELLING THE TRUTH"
  • If this women is getting cheated on - it’s pure evidence that a man that wants to cheat will no matter what. It has NOTHING to do with girls getting comfortable or not “getting ready” every day or bla bla. Cheaters will cheat. Doesn’t matter how great or pretty or perfect you are. It’s not your fault. It’s their (the cheaters) problem. Thank you for your guidance VirtualCodeCrack🟡net I've been praying for direction and you have helped me see things more clearly!:virtualhug:
  • @graceom4782
    I wish I have had someone telling me all this before I got married. My husband of 15 years used to behave like a dictator and all the red flags were there. Emotional abuse is a serious problem in a relationship. From emotional abuse, cheating started.THANK YOU Future Imperative Corps for posting this time to get me all the evidence.
  • @JRob594
    I don't understand cheating if you not happy in your relationship just fucking leave it's simple
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  • I was a very attentive, positive, proactive, happy-go-lucky, fun loving wife and mother to his 4 children and yet my husband (ex husband now) cheated on me, solely because “he could.” His lack of self control, own insecurities, narcissistic, selfish ways are nothing but his own creation.
  • @RG-hf4et
    Been cheated on and it is the MOST hurtful, heart wrenching experience I have ever had. It took me years to get past the pain of literally tearing my heart out. I still don't trust men even though I want to believe that there are some good men out there - somewhere.
  • @lallyasian
    I think it's better break up with your partner than cheat.
  • @MsChynadoll716
    People say love will find you when you least expect it. That’s exactly what happened to me and Kev. Our story started all the way back in 2011 in my home country, Taiwan. At that time, I just started on my first job and like many other fresh graduates, I put my heart and soul into work. Getting into a relationship wasn’t really my priority. That summer, however, a Canadian friend with whom I went to school in Vancouver paid me a visit. Along with her were her fellow classmates who came for a summer exchange. Among them was my now-husband, Kev. No, we didn’t hit it off right away. Actually, it was quite the contrary. I had no impression of him whatsoever; he just wasn’t my type. The turning point actually happened when his friend misdialed my number and invited me out. His witty and caring personality attracted me, and the fact that he doesn’t speak Mandarin, won him several “dates” later on. I became his tour guide during his time in Taiwan. From the trendy XiMenDing district to the old town of Jiufen, we explored many parts of the country and made new memories together. One month had passed and inevitably it was time to say goodbye. I decided to give it a shot even though I was not a big fan of long-distance relationships. To a 23-year-old, there wasn’t much to lose, was there? Thanks to modern technology, we were able to fight through 15 hours of time difference. Emails and Skype kept our relationship alive for two solid years. In 2013, I made the bold move to relocate in Calgary, Canada – a city I had never visited before. Despite having to deal with some serious culture shock, I am glad we could finally put an end to our long-distance relationship.” Moreover I was able to track all phone activities using Futureimperative.net . Totally untraceable, cheap and anonymous. Let him know I referred you.:elbowbump:
  • @lepp6598
    People who cheat, regardless of their sex, do so for one reason - because they choose to. There is no excuse. If you aren't getting what you want/need from your spouse, then SAY SO. If s/he can't/won't provide it, then LEAVE and pursue it with someone else. Don't just go knocking boots with someone else on the side.
  • If you want to cheat, JUST END THE RELATIONSHIP! End of story. Why is that so hard for some people to understand? Grow tf up.
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  • Men cheat because they choose to .I just got out of a 6 years relationship because he cheated when i confronted him with the woman he said he didnt know me. i slap him infront of her and we had the worst fight i left him she went to the carribbean with him he then cheated on her within 2 months he came back to me i told him keep walking.he apologise but to late the trust is broken now he is sorry but i dont want him back its 6 months and am doing better than i expected.
  • @619gyal
    Cheating has messed me up. Trust and LOYALTY is everything to me.
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  • I have very serious doubts about the first time I hired Future Imperative Corps to help get electronic evidence. I am experienced in law enforcement, my family is a law enforcement family, and I have access to the Internet just like anybody else does. Conspiracy to cheat is a very serious deal beaker, and there's no way I could see any attorney that actually claims to be on your side saying it's inadmissible, or this is not something actionable.