6 Behaviors That Make Someone Chase You

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Published 2020-09-20
Are you looking for dating advice on how to make someone chase you? Psychologists and researchers have long been developing studies to find out what exactly it is that makes someone attractive. Good looks? Pleasant voice? Positive attitude? While these are goals anyone would want to achieve, indeed they are attractive qualities, as we desire them for ourselves – what about the little habits we can develop that will make us more attractive? Behaviors that can make a potential partner admire you so much they’re willing to chase after you?

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If you find this video helpful and want to learn more about what makes you attractive, we have a video on that as well:    • 8 Things That Make You Attractive  

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All Comments (21)
  • @Psych2go
    How many BTS references can you spot? Comment below :)
  • @wisdom-for-all
    You must first be that person you want others to chase. Be such a beautiful soul that people crave your vibes 🖖
  • @JKAZ_M
    If you steal someone's phone, they're almost 100% guaranteed to chase you.
  • @mangotangolango
    "hang out with a group of friends" ...we are going to pretend we didnt hear that
  • @fz1792
    I like how every k-drama director has this knowledge
  • I'm 40 years old, and this channel teaches me more life skills than I ever learned in school.
  • @zuko1569
    1. Attractiveness Oh wait that's not a behavior
  • @meology8510
    btw, complimenting others DOES actually make a difference. I was the only one in my class who called my new physics teacher beautiful for the past few weeks and today she told me that she likes my personality and thinks i'm kind and a good person. but remember to be genuine in your complimenting :)
  • @agr0nianTV
    You forgot a big one, be yourself. If you're using a fake persona then even if you get your crush then things will not turn out well after all the relationship would be formed on a lie.
  • @zaynrobert1110
    interviewer : so tell me about yourself Me : spills coffee you're hired
  • I spent more time with my crush to the point he started acting like me and I acted more like him. But he never saw me as anything more than a friend. Even though we didn't end up together, I see that as a win
  • "You making some mistakes still make you look capable and intelligent" Then there's me looking like an idiot
  • 1. Compliment others . 2. Spend more time with the person you like mirror exposure effect 3. Play copycat and mimic their behaviours Chameleon effect 4. Say their name often Cocktail party effect 5. Be capable and intelligent human 6. Hang out with a group of friends
  • When people make a mistake and laugh it off, I think it's cute... But if they make a mistake and get irate it's not cute.
  • Summary: - Compliment others -Spend more time around your crush -Play copycat and mimic -Say their name often -Be capable and intelligent, but still human -Hang out with a group of friends
  • @ramen24_
    “Hangout with a group of friends” cries in lonely
  • I really like this channel's comment section. People are kind and positive and joking heartily, sadly a rarity on YouTube nowadays. And the animations are incredibly cute!!
  • @syk2973
    It doesn't matter how many of your vidoes i watch, i'll end up dying alone