4 Social Skills SECRETS that Make You Attractive AF

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Becoming interested makes you interesting and gives you a mysterious aura

For the smile tip, you can be genuinely happy by detaching the people your meeting to what you experienced earlier that day. By genuinely being positive, you’ll be a lot happier. Also by being less judge mental too. Just because someone looks weird to you, doesn’t mean that person isn’t valuable and important just because you think they aren’t.

1. Become interested, not interesting 2. Say their name (mention 3 times in the first 3 minutes) 3. Smile 4. Begin with praise and honest appreciation

As a female with RBF, I’ve had my fair share of elderly men approach me and tell me to smile. After reading this book, I actually started walking around with a smile regardless of how my day is going. I also have tremendous anxiety surrounding public places and what other people are thinking, so I started making a point of complimenting people I make eye contact with and it has actually helped me to gain clients at work. If I’m already smiling, they just smile back and we don’t necessarily have to interact beyond that, but complimenting them makes me feel better and less anxious and I’ve made someone else smile and saved myself from getting irritated with a stranger. It’s a win/win.

The one thing I learned and used the most throughout life is the listening part. I had noticed that unless directly asked about something specific, most people don't care about anything you have to say about yourself, they are just waiting for a turn to talk about themselves as well, and if you're honest with yourself you may admit that you don't care much about what they're saying either. If you want people to like you, let them talk and don't interrupt, just do little follow up questions or a nod at the right time to let them know you're listening. Absolutely everyone loves that.

Be interested Say their name more often Smile Put effort into the conversation Start with a honest praise

Introverts should be careful with "become interested, not interesting." As an introvert, I had a much harder time connecting with people before I started working on myself. Don't be obnoxious about it—read the room—but have something to share, because relationships are a two-way street: giving (interesting) and receiving (interested). Otherwise you're just a reporter, watching and asking questions.

What I love to do is remember specific things about each person I talk to, and then bring it up next time I meet them. It works especially well with stories and shows that you really do pay attention

Authenticity is key 🔑 Grateful for the shared knowledge and of course no commercials This is the way 🙏

The biggest takeaway is that for any of this to work you HAVE to be open to change. You can't just watch the video and get excited then carry on. You have to practice and form new habits. But the rewards will be worth it. Plant the seed, water it, and watch it grow.

"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get people interested in you" 🔥🔥

My buddy told me about 6 years back that he respected how I go after what I want and achieve that. To this day that’s stuck with me. That’s how powerful words can be!

BRILLIANT ❣️ Especially, "Give people a fine reputation to live up to". Thank you, Clark. I thoroughly enjoyed the video, Clark.😁 (I really did like it!)

Man, I just started watching you and you have massively changed my energy. I feel a lot more calm now. Especially after watching your letting go videos.

I LOVE your videos Clark! Thank you for sharing your passion! 🤣 at “giving 1/2 expenditure of a calorie to learn your name!” I’ve found that in the same line of making someone feel important, if you’re late for a meeting with someone can also send a message that “they aren’t important”. But when you’re early or on time with a smile on your face, that shows you’re excited to be present with them and can also make them feel important and sends signals high vibrations💕😁

Bro i wasnt expecting such a real video. This is real af, you gave geniune, soulful ways of looking at socialising. Respect!

Clark, I love how you're comfortable shooting with only an empty background and at a close-up angle. Makes you feel authentic talking about this topic. (Just a random thought I had while watching the video.) First time for me here in your channel, but I can see you've been doing this for a while and putting in a lot of effort to be good at it. 🙌

As a casino dealer, I can confirm that the things mentioned in this video will actually increase your tips. I was told towards the beginning of dealing poker “you should smile more, you look grumpy” by a player (a.k.a. Resting b*tch face). They were right. As I was new to dealing, I was concentrating and nervous which made me had a serious expression. Now when I approach the table to come in as the new dealer, I be sure to have a very slight smile (not a frown at least). Then when I sit down, I quickly glance for a split second at each player. If I make eye contact, I’ll give the slightest nod (almost like of recognition). If I do know their names, I will acknowledge them with a “hi John”. If someone has a cool shirt, hat, watch or luckily poker “charm” I’ll give them a “nice shirt!” nod. Last week a guy had a Motörhead shirt and I acknowledged it and then quietly sang a a line from “Ace of Spades” (one of their biggest songs). He laughed and said “great tune”. He ended up being my biggest tipper that round. People just want some sort of connection. Once they feel that, they are MUCH more generous when they have the chance to be.

Thank you for the recap. I read this book a few months back and needed a reminder of the principles. Will use them next week when I'm going out :)