What to do when a narcissist turns people against you
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Published 2020-02-10
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All Comments (21)
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When someone starts a smear campaign, I sit back and watch who believes the lies. And then I’ll know who aren’t my real friends after all.
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When a narcissist can no longer control you, he begins trying to control how others see you
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A narcissist will annihilate your families/close relationships like their life depends on it. This behavior dynamic acts like a filter for emotionally healthy people. Those who sign-up to be a narcissist's "flying monkey" usually lack critical thinking skills or are narcissistic themselves. Hurray for anyone in the group who sees through this.
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Never vent to a narcissist. Either about their BS or others... Oh my you will regret it. They love chaos.
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I learned from my life experience to never defend myself in front of the flying monkeys. They already picked a side and will never believe my side of the story. I just walk a way.
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When you cut ties with a narcissist you realize who your friends really are.
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Evil always destroys itself. So just watch...
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This is the most insidious abuse they do. I feel so sorry for all of us that have had this done.
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I went through this. Honestly, I don't even care anymore. If people can't be bothered to learn the truth and hear all sides of a situation, then those aren't the kind of people I want around me anyways.
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What to do when "friends" believe a smear campaign perpetuated by a narcissist: walk away and find better friends.
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My mother had the WHOLE family against me. My father, siblings, aunts, uncles, and cousins. I was a very shy kid and had no idea how to combat this. My sister mimicked her and had the neighbors and classmates against me too. I was 54 years old before I realized that I was NOT a defective piece of trash. Now, 12 years later, I still isolate myself out of self-protection, but I am learning to be content. This channel is helping me.
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My narc tried to turn my friends of 20yrs against me. My friends told me later, We kept thinking it just didnt sound like you. So we showed him the door!!!❤❤real friends
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I expect it from a narcissist. What really disappointed me was how easily others fell into their "flying monkey" roles. Leaves you disappointed in mankind as a whole.
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If a narcissist no longer has control over you, he/ she will convince people around you that you are the issue. Hold your head up high, carry yourself with grace. Eventually, things will fall into place
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If someone is telling you bad things about another person, theyre definitely telling other's bad things about you.
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Real friends push back on your behalf
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It's rough when your mother's the one who turns your siblings against you. Rougher still, when your siblings buy into it.
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They're so successful in this because so many people are overly ready to hear & believe negative things
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If a person can be turned against you, then that is a person who is not worthy of your presence. Those who genuinely love and care for you will not believe negativity about you.
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The deeper issue is people's willingness to believe anything they're told. Without that naivity, there are no "flying monkeys".
