Christian dating advice that is bad for men

I LOVE how men are ALSO being told to wait for their spouse! On the girly side we are told your man will seek you out so wait for him. Bro if we follow this advice no one is going to make the first move I cannot😂

I feel like as a men nowadays , women view us as ‘creepy’ when we approach them!

Saving it for marriage is a little disheartening when most ladies today have a higher body count than a John Wick film. I've been dumped three times for not jumping immediately into the sack on the second date.

That first advice about, just staying still and hoping that someone will fall out the sky in front of you is SOO true!!! Intentionally pursuing someone is WAYY better than passively finding someone.

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I really like you're videos they're motivating me and getting me more to Christ. Thank you and God bless you

I couldn't agree more with this. Modern society is out of touch with masculinity and the church is ESPECIALLY out of touch with it. It's blatantly obvious in contemporary worship music. As soon as I really started restoring my God given masculinity like being more decisive, being capable of leading, and building up confidence in my body through the gym, God blessed me with a wonderful girlfriend that has immense potential to become my future wife. I approached her, expressed my interest in her, found out she met all my standards and more, then asked her to be my girlfriend

"stop trying to catch butterflies, instead build a beautiful garden they will come yo you. And even if they don't at least you have a beautiful garden" This is the advice about waiting for men. And I agree that there is no point in trying to get a girl if you don't have what it takes to maintain one. But I also don't agree with just simply waiting. Once you have a beautiful garden go search for a butterfly to populate it. You build this garden not only for yourself but for your future partner and kids. I hope this makes sense to you guys.

Thanks for this. It is much needed. We don’t get this anywhere.

Idk man, ive kinda just given up. Its next to impossible to find a girl who isnt already taken. Let alone a Christian girl.

Changing who you are is important. It never stops being important. Because we are far from perfection. And although we may never reach perfection, we can always strive to be better than who we were yesterday. How we think about life, process emotions, and how we enjoy or don't enjoy things should be subject to improvement. This is true whether you are in a relationship or single.

Man I loved this! May God continue to be with you and flourish you with wisdom and courage to address such crucial topics which definitely need highlight in these days of confusion

I thought this was fully on point! Thanks for sharing this. 👌🏼👌🏼

Speaking about the issue of passivity, what I noticed in a lot of (majority women) viewers of ApplyGodsWord videos, they are attracted to the channel's videos that contain the word 'confirmation', '...God has for you', etc and they're usually advanced in age which says a lot of unfortunate truth about delusions in the Christian dating scene.

The problem is the imbalance of supply and demand. More young men seeking marriage than women, and the amount of liberal women is astounding, even in the church.

Thanks man. Needed to hear these things.

Thing is there are really not many options for me to "put myself out there". No guys at church, no guys at the gym, online dating has failed too many times to count. How can I be intentional? Its like trying to find water in the middle of a huge desert.

Telling people they have to wait for the perfect person and that sex is amazing when it's with your spouse has created an entire generation that is addicted to porn

Great Video! Really solid points! Wish that this info could go more mainstream

26 , I've been told to wait for only God will allow it. Now your saying I should look. Man, now rethinking my life, I can't even hold conversations yet approach without being looked at like a creep or weirdo