Christian dating advice that is bad for men

I LOVE how men are ALSO being told to wait for their spouse! On the girly side we are told your man will seek you out so wait for him. Bro if we follow this advice no one is going to make the first move I cannot😂

I feel like as a men nowadays , women view us as ‘creepy’ when we approach them!

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That first advice about, just staying still and hoping that someone will fall out the sky in front of you is SOO true!!! Intentionally pursuing someone is WAYY better than passively finding someone.

Saving it for marriage is a little disheartening when most ladies today have a higher body count than a John Wick film. I've been dumped three times for not jumping immediately into the sack on the second date.

I couldn't agree more with this. Modern society is out of touch with masculinity and the church is ESPECIALLY out of touch with it. It's blatantly obvious in contemporary worship music. As soon as I really started restoring my God given masculinity like being more decisive, being capable of leading, and building up confidence in my body through the gym, God blessed me with a wonderful girlfriend that has immense potential to become my future wife. I approached her, expressed my interest in her, found out she met all my standards and more, then asked her to be my girlfriend

"stop trying to catch butterflies, instead build a beautiful garden they will come yo you. And even if they don't at least you have a beautiful garden" This is the advice about waiting for men. And I agree that there is no point in trying to get a girl if you don't have what it takes to maintain one. But I also don't agree with just simply waiting. Once you have a beautiful garden go search for a butterfly to populate it. You build this garden not only for yourself but for your future partner and kids. I hope this makes sense to you guys.

I really like you're videos they're motivating me and getting me more to Christ. Thank you and God bless you

Thanks for this. It is much needed. We don’t get this anywhere.

Telling people they have to wait for the perfect person and that sex is amazing when it's with your spouse has created an entire generation that is addicted to porn

1. The only “dating” requirement we have is do not be unequally yoked which is smart. 2. Everything else is just preference. 3. Pursue people, do not wait. 4. God isn’t Amazon, your future spouse will not arrive at your door step.

The best advice I’ve taken to heart as a 25 yo is stop pursuing a relationship with a woman. It is a waste of time in 2024. “Christian” women have impossible standards. They want a Godly man AND he has to make more money than her, be taller than her, be charming, be funny, and pretty much be perfect. 😅 I’ve never been as happy as I am now by just accepting that I’m going to live my life single.

Thanks man. Needed to hear these things.

Man I loved this! May God continue to be with you and flourish you with wisdom and courage to address such crucial topics which definitely need highlight in these days of confusion

Idk man, ive kinda just given up. Its next to impossible to find a girl who isnt already taken. Let alone a Christian girl.

Changing who you are is important. It never stops being important. Because we are far from perfection. And although we may never reach perfection, we can always strive to be better than who we were yesterday. How we think about life, process emotions, and how we enjoy or don't enjoy things should be subject to improvement. This is true whether you are in a relationship or single.

Speaking about the issue of passivity, what I noticed in a lot of (majority women) viewers of ApplyGodsWord videos, they are attracted to the channel's videos that contain the word 'confirmation', '...God has for you', etc and they're usually advanced in age which says a lot of unfortunate truth about delusions in the Christian dating scene.

I thought this was fully on point! Thanks for sharing this. 👌🏼👌🏼

Bro this is fire! Yes! 🔥

Amen! As a young girl who’s never dated or anything whatsoever I am displeased with how most boys in my generation act and how they approach relationships (from what I understand). I feel like because of feminism, men are taught to stray away from their natural masculinity and that they should do everything in their relationships just for their girlfriends, and that girls should be “in charge” of their relationship. Not only would this video be helpful to Christian men, both young and old, but to non-Christian men as well. I’ve only been Christian for a couple of months and after experiencing God’s love it’s hard for me to understand why I or anyone else ever didn’t want to. For me I think it was a lack of education and knowledge of stereotypes. If people looked towards the Bible when dealing with problems, especially ones like these (relationships), no matter how religious they are, I think people would be more content in general and live much better lives ❤