Neurodiverse Friends - Swinging Moods

Having BPD myself, this was very nice to see! The immediate regret following emotionally-charged actions during my mood swings is something I've felt so many times, and it unfortunately never gets easier when it happens. My brain also switching anything (person, animal, etc) from 'good' to 'bad' in an instant because of a single action (no matter how small or insignificant) is also painfully frequent, and it makes it very hard to make friends when you're suddenly convinced that this person/animal/thing you're associated with is a horrible being who you should be wary of (like the puppy in the video). Very lovely video, I've been there before many times. Love all your work with trying to represent neurodivergence as well as stigmatized disorders 💖

There’s something really special about the way you convey neurodivergent solidarity. So many discussions about neurodivergence focus on distinguishing ourselves from others, both us vs neurotypicals and our diagnosis vs the rest. It’s super nice and refreshing to see the focus put on the shared experience of neurodivergence and how we can use our unique perspectives and gifts to lift eachother up.

I like how, even though the animation focuses on the cat with BPD and how they don’t necessarily want to snap at their dog friend, it doesn’t invalidate the dog’s feelings either (with Aspy comforting the dog and the dog still looking a bit sad). it is sympathetic to everyone involved!

I, someone with Autism and being good friends with someone with harsh mood swings, was delighted to see Aspy being there for Bidi. I’m also a dog person, so extra points!

The switching between moods, that good/bad thinking, and that fear of abandonment, you've done an excellent job at portraying it all in an easy to understand manner. Thank you so much for doing this!

I like how the puppy didn’t immediately forgive them in the end after they snapped at them. It took the rest of the day to warm up to them again. I’ve dealt with people who have BPD before and I know they can’t help mood swings, but as someone who grew up with a father who has severe anger issues it takes awhile for me to trust someone again after having an outburst at me. Very well portrayed!

Another gem! That instabt regret when you lash out at your environment because you yourself aren't feeling well... that was very well pictured. It's a difficult feeling of powerlessness and it will make you lose friends. Not everyone will be understanding, it's hard to make up for those episodes. My moodswings are mostly ADHD/autism related. I found that learning about my condition helped enormous to be able to explain to people. I ask for help, for gentle feedback (the gentle part is REALLY important!) and I take accountability. I was lucky to meet quite a few understanding, kind and gentle people who I feel safe with. I'm not as isolated as I used to be and I've been practicing with speaking up. I found that talking helps a whole lot, but sometimes people just need a hug, or for you to just be around in a sort of neutral state. It feels great to not be alone. These videos really help. Representation masters so much!

No matter how bad the modern times may be, I'm glad we now live in a time where we can see Neurodivergences in a better and kinder light, and not treat them like obligatorily dangerous diseases.

why did i silently screech like an eagle at this notification 💀

My friend has BPD and they always says it never gets representation, thank you for doing this one. ❤

I like that it isn't sugar coating the fact that it happens and the hurt it causes. all too often cute little things about mental disorders try to make BPD seem more 'mild' when it comes to this stuff, when the harsh reality is that things like this WILL happen. People WILL get irrationally hurt, and all you can do is try to heal and reconsiliate and move on, which takes time. Trying to make BPD seem less scary can cause just as many problems as it can when you make those with BPD seem like demons. I've seen and heard people talk about how when they eventually flip (forgetting the term, sorry) on their friends who said they 'knew about BPD' the aftermath looks something like their friend saying that they thought they had 'normal' bpd (whatever that means) and all sorts of assumptions abt how theyre a bad person and such. Not everyone can steel through a BPD friendship, I know I can't always handle them due to my trauma relating to anger and aggression but it isn't because I think theyre bad. My Dad has BPD and I love him to bits, he is my favourite parent and broke the cycle of abuse in his family. He's not the reason behind my trauma despite it being related to aggression and is a very good person. BPD doesn't make someone inherently evil or bad, but it combined with the trauma it is associated with can make someone become one. Remember that. Also. NEVER visit r/bpdlovedones by the way if you have a loved one with BPD and are seeking real support or advice.

I amazed at the fact Aspi barely emotes and I think they're the cutest of them all

I have to say, the backgrounds really made a difference for this one. It made it feel really serene! Just lovely work, as always!

DUDE I RELATE TO THIS SO MUCH. Sometimes you need to spend time away from eachother so you both can heal! I know how I am because I have bpd. Seeing Bidi being sorry and upset they scared Bo away is so relatable. Im so happy that people with bpd are getting good representation

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Discovering your videos has been an absolute gift.

I CLICKED SO FAST PIXI I LOVE THESE SHORTS SO MUCH; THEY ARE ALL ADORABLE

Love the setup...and payoff obviously. Not only does this short feel like a classic cartoon, it is nice to know that BIDI is in good company...in more ways than one. 😊

The dog immediately going to Autism and Autism being visibly happy when holding it makes so much sense. Love this!

i really appreciate autism being helpful in this situation! i’m very apathetic so many of my neurodivergent friends become much more calm around me because i don’t fuel their anxieties/mood swings! it’s very nice to hear that something i’ve been told is “not human” or “evil” throughout my whole life is actually helpful to my loved ones! thank you so much for these videos, even though this is mainly for bpd folks it still helps many others simply by the positive representation!