The hidden truth about human connection | Dan Foxx | TEDxChelmsford

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Published 2015-08-20
As human beings we have always been genetically driven to connect with other people. We are social animals but we are really poor at this skill. And we are “blind” to the obstacle which stands in our way, because the obstacle is US! The key to unlocking human connection is found in our ability to obscure our selfish underlying ego. We do this by learning a new way to love. The paradox is discovered when we authentically care for others first, we usually get more than we ever dreamed possible on our new and old relationships.

Dan Foxx is the owner of an executive coaching company, Unlock Your Leadership. He has been an international executive coach for the last 18 years. During this time, he has coached over 3,000 business executives, including 400 CEOs. The focus of his work includes: creating human connection, conflict resolution, team building, corporate strategy, executive team offsite facilitation, business speaking, the ignition of passion in the heart which leverages commitment, and “working with the Board of Directors.

Prior to this, Dan owned an advertising agency for 12 years, and has experience as a: VP of Marketing, VP of Sales, and President of an American manufacturing corporation. He lives with his family in Grass Valley, CA.

This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx
All Comments (21)
  • @ebone
    I was one of the lucky "3000 executives" that that Dan coached, befriended and changed. Of all the TED Talks I've watched, I can tell you all that he is the "real deal". I was in the right place, at the right time in my career and Dan changed my path in business and in life -- he made a difference. It's a great pleasure to re-live some of my memories of our meetings via this 18min TED Talk! Congrats Dan!
  • @raymundp.8306
    In order for me to surrender my ego is to be present with you in a meaningful way, I need to be consciously focused on you to get unaware of me.

    Thanks for this.
  • @wbrewski
    Having worked with Dan for over 10 years, I've had the opportunity to learn from him the subtleties and importance of human interaction and interpersonal connection. His TEDx talk encapsulates the best of what Dan has promoted in his life's work and I'm so happy that the TED forum has allowed his message to reach thousands.  I'm to proud to know and work with him.
  • @lisaeve6426
    I can not believe there are not more comments. This man is brilliant
  • @jajairarodriguez2675
    This is so good! Get rid of the ego , show them the need, make beautiful connections ♥️ live selfless lives.
  • @luluehayes
    I keep coming back to this wonderful video to re-learn the brilliant lessons that it can remind me of making powerful connections with people.
    Every time I do I'm completely floored that this video has so little views, I really wish more people would search how to make true human connection more.
  • @ripeshthatal4719
    Be humble and give your clear mind and heart with love. Great one thank you
  • @petewhittaker7888
    Here in 2020 we are seeing what happens when we 'ordered' to "stay away from each other". The world literally implodes and explodes with utter madness.
  • @naimatm823
    Such a complex topic, broken down so simply. Amazing!
  • @AIOTechnical
    Probably the best ted talk I have ever watched......why was I not recommended early
  • @alvin3171997
    One of the best ted talk ever ... powerful message and so emotional :')
  • @ThePartyScientist
    Our ego is never our friend when it comes to friendships.
    We are driven by what we want. Rather than searching for ways other people can benefit you and only you, we can learn to use the word "WANT" so that we genuinely want to connect and help others first. By creating a space where we sincerely want what's best for people, we can leverage more meaningful experiences and friendships in our life.