How Did Your Parents Mess You Up? | Fiona Douglas | TEDxPuxi
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Published 2018-01-03
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Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child
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My mother is a good role model..... She's everything I don't want to become.
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I'm terrified of having kids because I don't want to end up mirroring my own mother.
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toxic parents can destroy your life.
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Its sad that the people who are most close to us are the most toxic people in our lives, ive had the lowest lows from family and the highest highs from strangers...messed up
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We should have parenting licenses honestly.
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my father thought my depression was due to Satan, not because he hit my mother senselessly in front of me when i was 7
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My family acts beautiful and friendly when we have visitors and when no one is here visiting, it’s all screaming and never respecting ones opinions. I’m really tired.
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Thinking about the fact that only the children who are seeking for helps are watching this, not the parents
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Some parents just have children because it's something traditional, or because it's a 'blessing' for them. But they don't realise that we have lives too and we have dreams. Some parents are just so selfish.
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Me : sitting quietly in the sitting room Dad enters Me : Suddenly start getting panic attack
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i have toxic parents... i vowed to not do the things they did to me to my children in the future
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My parents used me all my life to bring them pride. They just want honour n pride. Never ask how I feel, what I want.....am I to fulfill just their wishes? Nothing of my own?
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Parents "you can come to us anytime for anything. We will listen" Reality " Don't be dramatic or stop being a baby"
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I can’t imagine my parents taking a parenting class seriously. As soon as the teacher starts talking about love and support my dad would just roll his eyes and say “I provide food and a home. You should be happy. “ I wonder how many abusive parents would actually want to be a better parent. Mine wouldn’t waste their time.
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My father was/is toxic, and my mom has always just made excuses for him. I'm afraid of having kids because I don't want them to feel the way I did growing up...
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The most hurtful words I heard from my dad was that “If I had known you were going to be like this I would have strangled you to death when you were younger.” “The most hurtful words I heard from my mom was “I wish I never had you.”
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I hate my parents deep inside. But I pretend I love them, false self.
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I’m not even kidding when I say I’m crying right now.
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Don't pressure your child to have the best life. Give them the best life.