What Happens When You No Longer Play Into A Narcissist's Games
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Published 2021-06-21
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All Comments (21)
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Once you get them out of your life, your high blood pressure goes down ! 😊
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"AWARENESS turns into KNOWLEDGE which then turns into POWER". This is so real. The more you know the least they can get to you.
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Never ever show a narcissist weakness when you’re down they will throw you under the bus
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I thought I was going crazy! He called me unstable and I had the impression I was losing my mind. That gaslighting, lies, reverse psychology was a level of evil that I never expected.
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You finally start having a sense of normalcy and feel your own energy returning.
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My heart goes out to all of the narc victims that didn’t have a platform like YouTube/Internet ❤️ I can’t imagine….
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Before you decide to no longer play the narcissist game, make sure you have an exit strategy in place because narcissist injury is a real thing . They will plot your downfall and come after you when you are most vulnerable or unprepared.
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Sadly, the narcissist won't leave you in peace, they'll leave you in pieces.
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Zero contact is the only way to reclaim your joy. Raised by a narcissistic mother, I attempted a reunion after thirteen years and was shocked at how immediate the fall into the old, abusive behaviours was. Back to zero contact, and this time I am guilt-free. You are ALWAYS better off alone.
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When you are doing well and are shining despite them, they HATE that lol.
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"Awareness turns into knowledge, then knowledge becomes power" I like this a lot.
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They are always right and project their insecurities onto others. Don’t walk, run!
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There needs to be a Narcissist Awareness Month 🚨
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‘why do i need to defend (myself) for being a good person’ We Don’t.
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When I left my husband of sixteen years.... I felt EMPOWERED and FREE. I learned MY WORTH!!
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I weep for the people who have passed away never knowing what they were dealing with. Much appreciation Doc!! ...and Little Laura. 😊
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Do you know what happens when you no longer play into a narcissist’s games, all while you begin to take accountability for your own self? You get your life back! Great way to start my week Dr. C! Thanks for this.
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The “block this caller” feature works really well for this!
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1. Emotional detachment. 2. Rearrange your anger style. 3. Rearrange your defensive posturing. 4. Reinforce your belief in your inherent decency. 5. Find your place of steadiness & Peace.
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My attitude now “You don’t like me? Give me a moment to get over the tragedy”. As Dr. C says- we don’t loose anything by letting go of a narcissist, we actually add to our lives by way of peace! I say this from personal experience having been married to one.
