a boy made me cry...so I'm leaving nyc!

When it comes to this "blindness" from falling in love with someone, I think the best thing we can do is communicate with our closest friends and family about even the smallest of red flags. This way they can more objectively figure out a pattern and advice us to protect us if we ourselves are not emotionally able to.

I'm so glad you said "sometimes life is shitty". Most people around me constantly try to fix everything and don't seem to allow each other (or me) to feel bad for any amount of time. I think it's important to sit with the shit for a bit. (lol)

as you date you learn quicker and quicker the red flags girly and as you have experience you learn how to see them quicker. be graceful with yourself and honestly that guy MISSED OUT!!! you’re so beautiful and i wish we were friend irl

Aww girlie! I hope it was just upsetting and not actually TRAUMATIC 😔 Either way your feelings are valid and sending you 💖 and strength

You should be so proud of yourself for taking the trip and realizing life may suck sometimes but you still need to experience it! Love your new hair!

!! Your videos are so real, inspirational & iconic!

But why did I think "solidcore" was a new aesthetic like cottage core 😂💀

What an incredible young woman you are. I stumbled across your channel (gotta love the YouTube algorithms) and am so glad I did. It might seem funny that a 62 year old woman from Kentucky would find and appreciate your content, but I consider my find you a blessing. I've been feeling old, alone and depressed lately and you and your words of encouragement are just what I needed today. I've been living my life like it's almost over and pointless to try new things. Thank you for the wake up call - I need it and sincerely appreciate it, Jen. 🙂

i know it's weird but the TIMING of this video is crazy?! like i have (shamefully) cried over a boy for the past couple of weeks and now you posted this with an eerily similar experience? it really makes me feel that im not the only one going through it, sure the experience made me feel like i could never love and be loved again, but there is something soothing to hear that yea these things happen, it is what it is. hearing you talk about this felt like talking to a sister and friend without judgement. and yes, i am mortified that i cried for weeks, over a MAN? come on guys, that's embarrassing.... from the previous video of your messy love life to this, i relate to many of those things you've mentioned and it's reassuring that maybe this is just not the right time yet. i wish the best for you and your love life, you deserved it <3

We def need details! At least junkies I feel. Also just imagine taking casual coffee brake by your window and suddenly hear all the tea spilling from some random girl below, crazy world. Anyway love u Jen! Don’t let stupid boys crush your spirits, you’re the boss

It always makes me happy to have a notification on your channel ☺️💖

your filming is so creative and cinematic <3

Watching your videos in new york made me feel so warm inside and made me think back on my time in Korea. I moved to Seoul, south korean for the summer and I feel like it was one of the best desions I made in my life. I did go through a lot of hardships in the first 1 month of my stay but after that it was amazing. I met so many people and learned what it was like to live alone in a big city. Now that I'm back I the US I am soo "homesick" and I'm literally trying to find a way I can move there move there more permanently.

Aww I'm sorry a boy made u cry😢 my previous relationship absolutely destroyed me mentally. I went from seeing romance with through this pink filter to actually being scared of ever letting a man into my life again so... just want u to know that u r not alone <3

This resonates with me so much!

It feels like I am touring the NYC with you ❤

very much going through a similar experience with a boy rn and very much a needed video ❤❤ we'll get through it babes everything happens for a reason

Your so inspiring I love your videos I can’t wait for the next GLOW UP project episode!!! <33

this was soo inspiringggg <3

Iconic new vlog ever. ❤