Love & Respect - Part 1

“Without love, she reacts without respect. Without respect, he reacts without love.” THIS. IS. GOLD. ❤

My dear husband is one of the most loving persons I've ever known. When I see how patient he is with me and our children, it makes me want to be a better person and Christian. I Thank God a thousand plus times for him.

If you love yourself....n know that God loves you....the love of our husband n wife will be the icing on the cake...no human being was created to fulfill someone else's need for love...that must come from God n from within ourselves....

Did this whole book and lesson and learned greatly from it. Understanding not only my Husband so much better, but also my son. I would advise everyone to do this program. I feel it is amazing! At times it put me out of my comfort zone, but I do believe it speaks truth!

Loving father thank you for loving me in a way that I can't even understand, thank you for this ur son who has made me understand what it really means when we strive in relationships. Help me to be a masterpiece for those who are striving in their relationships and marriages. Lord God I seek forgiveness where I have been disrespectful to be loved and I forgive my fiance for being unloving to me to be respectful 🙏. Thank U Lord Jesus for this. Be the driver for my yet to come marriage

Tired of sad, love, mix emotion, upsetting, sorrow songs... Time for some learning and listening to what some of these beautiful humanities have to teach, give, and share with us of there (knownledge)and wisdom too.. Sometimes i like to switch back and forth to music and learning so i wont get so lost n stuck in getting myself stuck being in a emotional distress... Thank you for this subject and topic here, your sharing and teaching here, i surely enjoyed it on your teaching and sharing lol :) thank you and stay blessing beautiful love and humanities lol :)

This is my 4th time listening to this and I love it. My wife needs my Love and this makes me push to give that to her every day. Thank you Holy spirit

Wonderfully explained! Thank you for teaching God’s Truths!

I want it to be said that I loved well.I want to be known for the respect I give to the man of my dreams...He deserves the best and I hope I can give him that.

I haven't remarried yet...but this is a great video. Very insightful. It helped me understand not only my needs, but the need of a man in a marriage as well. He gave Very clear explanations. 💚🙌🏽🙏🏽

Have struggled so bad my story kinda resonates with the opening story to the book. With not much help i have dug around to try find one and this book came up in one podcast I have decided to give it a try. I need my marriage to work and am putting the effort

Been beating my head against a brick wall and here it is. Amazingly clear.

The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila W Gregoire— terrific resource for wives especially!

This is so helpful, I need to remind myself often of these things ❤

At the beginning he addresses how definitions and lenses are different...then he seems to lose his own message! What constitutes “love” and “respect” varies greatly from person to person. We too often approach from a realm that it’s obvious...but to who? Only us (or people that think exactly the same). We need to define things very specifically and have the conversations, listen deeply. That in itself helps prevent much misunderstanding. Respect can mean holding the door open for one person...and another person sees it completely differently. We don’t get to determine the meanings of things for other people. However, we have an opportunity to learn the uniqueness and individuality of another, and use that information to support and connect to them.

The key to a healthy sex life in marriage is that it does not become a "chore" or a "ministry" to the wife. If it does happen, that is on the husband....for not paying attention. Interestsing that guys will spend hours watching YouTube videos on cars, home improvement, etc. Imagine if they spent that kind of energy getting to know their wife's needs. Life changer! Better sex for him. More intimacy for her. A win-win. ❤🙏🏼

Im a woman and i value respect more than love

Thank you for your work and your book. Sadly, my marriage is beyond repair in my husband's eyes. I have hurt him through words and actions for years, because I thought I did not know any different and because of addiction, insecurities, etc. I have forgiven myself and I know God has, too. I pray for my kids, that they will understand.

2yr later. I found this. thank you for posting

I remember this message well. So valuable. Sadly, I took my eyes off the ball and really lost my way. I turned my back on God and before I knew it, I sabotage the most loving and meaningful relationship I've ever known. She was so radiant through that whole process and I was in so much internal pain that I grew cold and distant from everyone. Now that I've sought the help I so desperately needed years ago, I'm terrified I'm losing her forever and it's too late. Please help me pray for a miracle.