Life is Messy Sometimes

Want you to know that just by keeping a friendly relationship with your ex-wife, you're already doing better for your children than 99% of divorced parents.

The internet is a dangerous place; especially to share one’s self and one’s suffering. You’re so brave for sharing with us. Not everyone will respond kindly, but please know that the majority of us see you as an incredible person that deserves happiness. Beyond the meme and character of Doofenshmirtz, there are people like myself that care about you as a person Dan! We’re greatful to listen to a kind, funny, wonderful person like you! I’m really glad to hear that your year has been getting better! I hope that things continue to for you and your family!

I'm not crying, I'm just sweating out of my eyes like a baby turtle

I’m a daughter of divorce, and, with no intention of diminishing your grief, I’m so glad you still have contact with your kids and that your relationship with your ex is still civil. That is HUGE in taking healthy steps forward, and it’s a gift I never had. Take as much time as you need to mourn and heal. We love you Dan, and we’re so grateful for your courage in sharing the messy parts of life ❤️

I think we can all say that we’re thankful for you dan. You’re given us a lot of good memories and its hard to be in that situation, my parents went through this. Because were only human and life is messy.

Dan.. it’s probably not going to feel good for awhile but I promise that things will get better, this was the first thanksgiving without my grandpa but it’s ok, you were with the people you love and all of your supporters here on the internet, cheering you on! I’m sorry this happened to you and I know I can’t fix it, life isn’t perfect but that doesn’t mean it’s going to stay bad. You got this Dan, you can get through this.❤❤❤

We love you, Dan. Stay strong!

Midlife is hard. We’re supposed to have it all figured out, have all our shit together, but we’re all still making it up as we go. Thank you for sharing this, Dan.

As someone with divorced parents, twice, this hits hard. I’m so sorry that you and your ex wife drifted apart, but I’m glad you both are at least friends in the end. I hope Meli is okay through out all of this. Stay strong Dan, and know we all care about you ❤️

My wife asked for a divorce. I dealt with a lot of a pain. Realizing you can be happy without them is the hardest thing. It makes it more real. Do you want to know what got me through. You. Your YouTube videos brought me joy in a dark place. We are hear for you. Like you are here for us.

I think it's so utterly important for people to show the messy parts of themselves to the world without fearing they'll never be 'tidy' again. Our messy parts are still us, still very human aspects. I'm thankful we have positive role models like Mister Povenmire to remind us of that. I think we could all use a good cry, from time to time, and I'm glad you had one when it was needed 💜

It hurts me deeply seeing someone who is as kind as Dan like this. You got this friend, we're here for you.

I've seen my parents be unhappy in their relationship, divorce, resent each other, grow back together and become great friends. There were some rough years, but, in the end, I think everyone is happier for it.

Unfortunately, people drift apart, and it's difficult to adjust when it happens. It takes a lot of strength of character and maturity to realize something isn't working and discuss it, bring it into the open, and talk about it honestly and openly. I'm so sorry you're going through something so tough, I don't know you, or your life, but from the impressions I have of the things you post online, you are a strong person with empathy and kindness, and you will get through this and come out the other side. All of us fans are cheering you on and sending our best wishes your way.

It’s good to see your open about talking about this stuff.- I hope you are able to get way better! ❤️

Divorce is like different states grabbing a ruler to draw new borders. They look straight on paper, but your ex takes parts of your soul and you are left with parts of theirs. You have to redefine who you are with those new parts and borders and it hurts. A lot.

My parents separated in a way that, from what you described, seems similar to your situation. This year marks my second “double Thanksgiving.” My brother and I still feel very loved by both of them. I think I can relate to your experience of good things and not so good things happening at the same time. I say this to say, thank you for sharing, and thank you for being one of those good things to a whole lot of people.

Thanks for sharing this Dan. You’ve made a huge difference in my life and I’m sorry you’ve had to go through this. Kia Kaha. Stay Strong

Thank you for sharing this when you felt it was right and were in a better place mentally. This sort of thing can tear people apart from the inside out. From the bottom of my heart, I wish you, your wife, and your children the best, Dan.

I’ve been there and I promise it will always hurt but it will get easier as the days go by. I’m thankful for you sharing your tremendously entertaining works! There isn’t a day that goes by that our TV doesn’t have a show you created! As a devout fan, I love ya brother!❤ Just remember, one day at a time! 😢😅😊