AITA for Calling Off My Engagement?

Published 2024-06-07
Join us as we unravel a dramatic Reddit tale where an engagement comes to an abrupt end after the fiancée decides to attend her ex's birthday party. This video covers the initial dilemma, the intense reactions, and the surprising final update. Don’t miss out on this rollercoaster of emotions and judgments!

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00:00 Story
03:19 Update
04:53 Final Update

All Comments (4)
  • Dumb fool! She destroyed the relationship by placing more emphasis on a friendship with an ex over her fiance. The moment her significant other was not given an invitation to the party, she should have made the decision to not go, but she chose the ex. OP seeking to take blame for her decisions diminishes her accountability. Therefore it teaches her nothing and she will eventually do it again.
  • OP is not ready for a relationship. With anyone. He agreed that he was going to be okay with her attending her best friend's birthday party. Then he rewards her with the silent treatment when she comes home. You don't get to give your consent to something, then punish them for it. UPDATE: Further evidence of OP's immaturity, he wants to know how his ex is doing, so he asks a friend about her, like a gossipy little schoolgirl. If you want to know how she's doing, you call her and ask yourself. FINAL UPDATE: This is the only time I actually agree with the OP. "My own insecurities were the main issue." True. "She truly deserved someone who could give her the love and support she needed." True. "She had done nothing wrong." True. "The breakup was entirely on me." True. OP threw away and good, loyal partner, which most of us will never even have. Congrats to her for ditching an ungrateful loser.