Mom Kicked Me Out 'Cause Stepdad & His Kids Hate Me—But I Own the House

WOW! A Queen sized Crochet Blanket is a very valuable gift. True Crochet can not be machine made. So, step mom is entitled af while a spa treatment is nice. A blanket like that is a reminder of how much they care for you. I wish I still had my Crochet blanket from when I was a baby that my mom made me.

Story 2, John is marrying a gold-digger. OP did the right thing. That vampire will BLEED him dry and leave him broken AND broke.

Did they pay rent? No. They could have squatters rights. Consult a lawyer. If you need get eviction notices.

Story 2: NTA. Don't give him anything until 30 or grandkids

For squatters rights don't they need to be actively squatting there? They were out on vacation and refused to talk to OP, so OP could argue that they thought they abandoned the place.

Op's father knew everything beforehand that's why he didn't marry her or keep her in will..

Squatter's rights dont apply so people need to drop that argument. You have to live somewhere for 7 years and have proof you have been paying the property taxes the entire time. There was no lease, no rental agreement, nothing. OP skipped the system. Morally he should have issued a 30 day writ of eviction, the family could take him to court but it would be a waste of time and money.

The person who said OP was the idiot in the second story is the actual idiot, the OP is worried about his son and just wants to protect him he can asume what he wants about his daughter in law because what she’s doing is mad suspicious, not paying for anything(even the wedding because even though she doesn’t pay for anything else and should have plenty saved up she suddenly doesn’t have anything again), most likely not even giving him gifts(assuming from when he said she didn’t pay for ANYTHING). If I were OP I would definitely ask for a pre-nup as well because she seems like a total gold digger but I would tell my son that I was looking into her background or hiring someone to see where she spends her money because if it’s not something important then I would ask why she’s spending so much money on things she doesn’t need when she needs to pay for living in someone else’s house. Btw OP probably does care about the money because it’s his sons money for the future, he doesn’t want his son falling back on him because OP wants him to be strong and not have to. NTA

Yes prenup is needed period

First story: Wait op's parents aren't on lease or renting so they can't have a tenet rights its his house with someone else living in there

The 2nd story they both refuse to clean and his son handles all household expenses and the house waa already his. On top of that she refuses to clean as well so he has to hire a cleaner. I admit i am more bias for people that handle the lions share of financial responsibilities. But if you're not contributing financially at least you can help upkeep the house. The father was being responsible. Also if youre planning on being with someone forever how is signing a prenup a dissrrspect.

(F* off, YouTube!) Story 1: I can’t help but notice OP’s family is quick to shame OP but not as much to take in OP’s mom and her new family. It is OP’s house. Not theirs.

Last story - What is wrong with your step mother and father? I think I'd rather the crocheted blanket that I would have around for years showing the love my step-daughter has for me daily more than a few days at a spa that the memory of which would fade over the years. The crocheted blanket had way more of you built into it than the spa weekend did, all you did for the spa weekend was pay while you spent time and your hard earned money to hand make the blanket. Your father and step mother seem to have skewed views of what is valuable. Good gift OP given to an unappreciative person .

Story 1: they arent tenants, he doesn't owe them anything, there is no contract... The commenter should read the whole thing

Would squatters' rights apply when the squatters not only didn't pay rent, but made the rightful owner leave the house?

FATHER KNEW MOTHER GIVE A MAN EVERYTHING ! TO KEEP A MAN !

The free house story needs an update.

Story 1: I agree with the choice, not the method. Legally, in the US, you have to give them a formal notice varying by state. Typically 30 days. You can face some serious legal issues if they choose to take action. Then again, you could also take legal action on abandonment.

Comments ln story 2 is just a bunch of people taking shit out of context and making up strawhat arguments. In no section of the post did op ever refer to or accuse anyone of being a gold digger. He was simply a bit sceptical of the fact that his sons gf didn't pay for things, which is 100% normal when you live together, if being sceptical of red flags. Cause let's be honest, a girlfriend that does not contribute to household finances, that is a major red flag. If that makes u an asshole. Well then there would be A LOT of assholes walking around.

I feel dad abt the money lol, he knows this girl doesn’t help out at all! so why would his dad want him to blow thru his money on a wedding that the bride isn’t helping with at all and she’s already not helping with they’re day to day life he’s blowing through his savings already🤷🏾‍♀️