Nice guy habits you need to stop NOW

2,000,101
0
Published 2022-06-27
Being a nice guy doesn't mean you should allow women or people in general to walk all over you. There are habits that are keeping you from reaching your best potential. Kick those habits to the curb!

Join this channel to get access to perks:
youtube.com/channel/UCtF8utPViNead2ycADGFZ5A/join

Click this link to my merchandise shelf:    / @jessicaos  
#JessicaOS

Subscribe to my second channel
My second Channel : youtube.com/jessicaosvlogs

Explore Ghana with PassionAir. Book a flight now www.flypassionair.com
Support my channel by Become a Patron : https//: www.patreon.com/jessicaos

Need a professional Voice Over for your product Service or channel?
I will give you the best voice overs in the business. Send me an email [email protected]

My gear:
Lavalier Mic: Rode Wireless Go II : amzn.to/3lZquCQ
Zoom H5 Audio Recorder: amzn.to/3diKFrH
Rode Wireless go II : amzn.to/3ngRzCK
Aputure light dome: amzn.to/3bf3kSz
Aputure 120d : amzn.to/3bu2iT1
Aputure LED MC lights RGB : amzn.to/3jZlyeB
Sony alpha 7 c : amzn.to/3pxnR9Y
Sony zoom lens 24 -105mm : amzn.to/3queCZB
Sony prime lens 20mm: amzn.to/3ppNhGJ
C stand : amzn.to/37mDbA9

Connect with me on social media
Facebook: web.facebook.com/jessicacitifm
Twitter: twitter.com/jessicaosgh
Instagram: www.instagram.com/jessicaosgh/
Website: www.jessicaoparesaforo.com/


Find my Sunshine Girl Podcasts on the following platforms
Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/1VYcKGMrCsEgMkl0VgNEas
Google Podcasts: www.google.com/podcasts?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZ…
Anchor: anchor.fm/jessicaos
Breaker: www.breaker.audio/sunshine-girl-podcast
Pocket Casts: pca.st/0flnbmf4
RadioPublic : radiopublic.com/sunshine-girl-podcast-GEJxYN

00:00 - Intro
02:52 - Habit 1
05:15 - Habit 2
06:38 - Habit 3
09:46 - Habit 4

All Comments (21)
  • @jossell911
    As someone whose been called too nice. I’m learning to change. Mission: Put yourself first. Value yourself. Have self respect and set boundaries!!!! Very crucial vid💯
  • I remember in high school I use to hear girls say this about me out loud to people “he’s weird, he so nice, and text me good morning beautiful every morning.” And those same girls that treated me like that now got 5 to 6 kids and a few baby fathers who don’t even help them. I lost the battle but I won that WAR 😌
  • @Raj-cl7he
    Setting healthy boundaries will automatically make you seem like a bad boy. What changed for me is that I started noticing how much my qualities of being nice to others was actually affecting my self esteem, my confidence, my opinions, even my right to speak up. Once you see how it affects you will start making steps to better your self
  • I love this,I've been a nice guy and has been used and stupid to some friends and families, trying to please people has been my greatest problem. Today,I turn a new leaf
  • @niiadomnortey
    Learning how to say "No" and not feeling guilty about it is the best thing that you can do for yourself
  • @isazaki3056
    As a former nice guy. I would advice most guys to become a gentleman instead of being a nice guy or a bad man.
  • I like to tell people that if you're a nice guy, don't only be a nice guy. Show people that there's more to you than nice and that there are consequences for mistreating you.
  • The 4 Nice-Guy Habits to STOP are: 1. PEOPLE PLEASING thus living by IMPOSSIBLE standards. 2. Too much AGREEABLENESS, which kills your INDIVIDUALITY. 3. SAYING YES to everyone's requests thus allowing EXPLOITATION. 4. Failing to STAND UP for yourself when insulted/harmed/threatened. Adios.
  • @Baruch994
    Nothing wrong with being a nice person... your not meant for everyone! We are just living in a hateful nasty world!
  • Thank u Jessica.U are amazing and you comments are so true and absolutely good and true.I cannot stop watching your channels.
  • Thank you I was also that nice guy putting people first and helping everyone when they come seeking for help. Thank you❤️
  • Never change who you are for nobody, if she don’t appreciate who you are she don’t deserve you. Let the trash stay in the trash can. 💯
  • Being a gentleman, setting boundaries & putting yourself first is always the best option
  • I swear Jessica you are just too correct.All this points you made from point one to point six are just exactly the point. I in most cases find myself in this kind of habit/attitude.
  • @peterpn3215
    Thank you so much I have been a prisoner of being nice to everyone but have now been delivered may God richly bless you
  • The truth is that people see nice guys as people who are weak. Sometimes it's really very difficult to change from the real you, but I think is high time I start being nice to myself too than that way I do to people. Thanks a lot Jessy
  • Sometimes as a dude it’s actually very important to stay quiet. Even if you know the solution to a problem that’s being discussed in your presence. As a guy you should be able to analyze and pick up energies around you without staring 👀 or opening your mouth
  • Thank you, Jesica. That's all I can give you. you've really transformed me.
  • @fawohelvis397
    Wow this is a great eye-opener to me. I have spent almost all my life being a nice guy trying to please everyone and ending up being the most used, most abused and most unrewarded. I'm changing this with radicalism!!!